Lighten up dude. He didn't ask you to pay damages for him, and you don't have to read the thread. I think you're short on hugs.In all seriousness - you just bought a $50K + vehicle. For what you're doing, you've basically just turned it into a toy that you're playing with and not knowing what's going on.
Sit down, read the manual. Then read it again. If you have a specific question after or during reading the manual then either look it up on YouTube or ask it here.
I'm all for helping people out, but I shake my head at people who pay all this money and then just start pressing buttons and pulling levers.