JL 2D
Well-Known Member
I hold the door for everyone, don’t give a shit if they like it or not. If someone has their hands full, I open it for them. I don’t make a big deal out of it, I don’t look to see if they are upset, don’t care. I open doors for my wife and always will. You can’t win with those that want to control your actions so don’t play the game.I’m the guy on the other side of that story feeling unsure what the appropriate thing to say is. We were taught to say sir and ma’am growing up. Now I don’t say ma’am because I’m told it makes ladies feel old. If I say Miss I get corrected that it’s Mrs. If I know a last name and not marital status I just say Ms followed by their last name to be safe. If not I avoid it all together.
Don’t get me started on the social pressure of knowing whether it’s ok or condescending to hold a door open for or offer your seat to a lady. I do it anyway but it doesn’t always seem well received. My wife says you know nobody does that anymore. I just shrug.
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