ResponsibleAdult
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Agreed. The first isn’t entitled, it’s what our goals as society should be.I don't think I knew anyone personally who was guilty of having their parents call on their behalf.
Playing hooky because the weather is nice...different story. I've seen it done, but the risks are understood, and they usually burn a PTO or sick day.
In my experience, I have been called "entitled" for expecting the list you lead off with. THAT really bugs me.
And I think the entitled I’m talking about comes from lack of practise. Which is the fault of the older generation. We can’t get mad at college kids whose parents call, because they’ve never had to practice those difficult conversations or take ownership because their parents always called, or pushed the blame someplace else. If a 5 year old wasn’t expected to be responsible for his backpack at school, the 9 year old didn’t have to apologize for being disruptive in class, the 12 year old’s mum called to explain that the 2 week long project wasn’t done because they had hockey last night, the 16 year old went to the beach, but when McDonalds wondered why he didn’t show up for his shift, Dad said he was sick, the who is really to blame for the call to the professor? And in truth, who is actually the entitled one: the kid, or the parent who avoided any conflict with their child?
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