The module which receives the door electrical doesn't want to go anywhere (I can unplug the door, but the module stays put contrary to the video). Where he says "there's a little tab behind it" - I have no idea what he's talking about or how to release it. Other than cutting my fingers to shreds feeling for it...
I know it isn't helpful, but if I may vent for a moment. I don't understand why Jeep would put the wire bundle right there, easily accessible, but not give you an equally easy grounding point. Very frustrating.