I think you should get the Rubicon you are trying to get. I doubt the dealer will give a steel bumper or install a lift or anything else. I also would be a little worried since it has color matched fenders that will have to be painted. My OCD would kick in since the paint more than likely wont match perfect. If it had regular black fenders that would be a lot less of an issue in my opinion but i guess it would depend on how OCD you are. I guess it does not hurt to ask but I would not expect they do much.