Searching Amazon is why I asked. Noticed most were exactly where you mentioned which seems significantly less to me in relation to the one I got. I have heavy duty springs so I’m hoping some extra weight will soften them up a bit. But don’t want to sag or dive when breaking.They get even heavier than that, but 130 lbs seems to be the upper end of what most people prefer. Do you have or plan on adding a winch? If no, then that weight is no issue at all. Add the winch, ya its starts getting up there.
A quick amazon search shows even most of those full width bumpers don't go above 80-90 lbs.