Get the JL Tazer and set it up and you will never have to worry about pushing that button again. I've had one on mine since March. The Tazer remembers your setting that was last used, so if ESS is turned off when the Jeep is turned off then it will start like that the next time.
Thanks Mike! The lift is not Diesel specific, it's Metal Cloaks 3.5 GameChanger. It has 37's on it and yes it's Rubi. I'm not sure about the front bumper because I already had the ends off before I installed the lift.
I just crawled under the Jeep to check out the sway bar and the DEF tank. Looks like I have 1/2"-3/4" between the two. I know in the instructions there are two ways to install the sway bar. I flipped mine per the instructions and used the spacers.